Somehow, for over a decade of marriage I lied to myself that yelling and screaming periodically at my wife was normal and acceptable behavior. MEVAC gave me the tools to actually “see” the lies I had been telling myself, and the education and encouragement and support of other men dedicated to eliminating the causes and habit of Verbally Abusive and Controlling Behavior and that has forever changed my life and that of my family for the better.
I had pretty well given up on my husband and when he told me about MEVAC I thought it was just another manipulative ploy of his to control me with some sort of hope for the future and his membership meant absolutely nothing to me. Now, two and a half years after my husband joined MEVAC, I have witnessed his core beliefs about verbal abuse truly change 180 degrees and he is no longer held back by those incredibly hurtful, self defeating verbally abusive behaviors and habits that had destroyed both our marriage and very large parts of me.
-Mack MEVAC men are Gentle, Stable, Humble, Loving, Caring, Compassionate, Empathetic, Strong in heart